The Marriage concept?!!... And the GOOD news :-)

Don’t you think the whole marriage concept has become more complicated and more competitive (Should I say that??)…

I have Often been hearing of girls and boys being rejected for the silliest reason ever and I sometimes wonder if people look for a life partner or just need another person at home with the same profession…

The first criteria for marriage these days has been the same profession, maybe it’s true that its easier for people to understand their professional life but there is nothing Like it’s impossible for someone to survive with a person of different profession (People have been projecting it like it’s impossible and lot of times we really tend to believe the possible being impossible) ….An engineer wants to have an engineer bride, Reason: Normal graduates will never understand their work life style… I want to rubbish this concept and say, a normal human being can understand things and if the person does not there is always an option of giving explanation.

 A gal with a career in medicine has to marry a doctor; else she has no life…really??!!...If one marriage doesn’t work out doesn’t mean every marriage with different professions don’t work out…

And then there are people saying things like, “don’t ever marry a guy from the army, you have no life,  blah blah blah”…that’s  another talked about topic which I hate the most…Don’t you think it’s a “proud thing” to marry the men in the army?!!..I definitely think so…

There are boys who wants to marry engineers with the same specialization as his,  wants a gal who works in the same company as his with the same profession( more customized)… of course all of this should be arranged marriages with all the horoscopes being matched and with criteria’s like the girl being fair , tall and pretty……And then there are girls who want boys with a minimum fixed high end annual income with all the gaadi, ghar etc etc… and again he should not be more then 27 years old, the tall good looking criteria holds good here too…

No offence to people who expect this, sure its each ones individuals interest, likes and perceptions and Maybe, I have nothing to do with that...But, it bothers me, why do we expect customization in everything …

There are Incidents where girls are being rejected because she has Pimple in her face, She is too short, She is dark and maybe more embarrassing lame reasons...And the boys being rejected for bad dressing sense/ for not wearing branded clothes, reading books of regional languages and more silly reasons…

I have always believed the concept of “marriages are made in heaven” and it has nothing to do with the profession, cast and whatever… All I feel is the minute you see a person made for you, you will know it…May be it might take time and you will need to meet so many gals/ boys for this...But when it comes to rejection please reject the person with respect rather than giving lame reason like pimple on the face , the complexion etc..

And According to me maybe the professional interest should slightly take a back step when it comes to marriage.

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With All the Cribbing I don’t wanna forget about the GOOD NEWSJJ... It’s about our next in the Who’s next list...JJ..Prajna Rai...This time I din’t miss a heartbeat, I was prepared for a surprise unlike the last two times, but the very soon to be bride is surprised herself JJJJ…I could feel the confused and Panicked Prajna when she said” I’m engaged and It all happened so fast”JJJJ……But like always, I guess It’s a part of being engaged feelingJJJ..Congratulations prajna...Happy for you and I can’t wait to see you as a brideJ…..Wish you all the happiness in the world and hope you always remain crazyJJ…..Love you always Praj JJJJJJ

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